6 Reasons My Kids Get to Use Their Devices When We Eat Out


Have you ever felt disapproving looks when your kids are at a restaurant busy on their devices? I have. More than once to be honest.

See, I used to feel a lot of guilt for having my kids on the phone while we were enjoying our meal at a restaurant. But I eventually came to realize that it was giving my husband and me a much-deserved break.

I stopped caring about what others think. Here are the six reasons why I’ve decided to let our kids be on their devices at a restaurant.

6 Reasons why I let my kids use their devices when we eat out

1. Every Parent Needs a Break

After a long week or long day catering to our kids, driving them to their activities, and finding fun things for them to do, parents need a break: a break like a warm meal without any interruptions.

2. They Practice Their Manners

We have taught our kids to order their food. Also, they know to take their eyes off of their devices when their food is delivered to politely thank the server.

3. They Learn Device Usage Etiquette

We have always made sure that they are considerate to others, such as having a low volume on their devices or wearing their headphones.

4. Sometimes They Use Their Devices Less Than You Would Think

We still interact as a family. In fact, many times they divert their attention to write or draw on the kids’ menu they were given. Or they play with each other.

5. Screen Time Can Be Educational

They usually either watch a movie or play educational games. Plus, there are tons of free educational apps you can download for your kids.

6. Sanity!

Your sanity is important. My husband and I can have conversations, enjoy a meal, a cocktail, and our marriage.

6 Reasons why I let my kids use their devices when we eat out

So, no, I don’t think my kids will become a failure for some extra time on their devices, nor that they are missing quality time with their parents. We play with them, we read with them, we have conversations, and we do a ton of fun stuff as a family. Some extra time on their devices won’t damage them.

People will always judge. They’ll stare, and they’ll make comments. But they don’t know you or your reasons to allow this, so let them mind their own business. Plenty of parents will high-five you along the way!

Originally published July 2021.

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Ximena was born and raised in Mexico City and has called Albuquerque home for almost twenty years. She is married and has three little ones that she is raising bilingual. Since recently becoming a stay-at-home mom, she's rediscovering Albuquerque (and life) through a new lens. You can find her begging her kids to read a book in Spanish or attempting crafts with them off of Pinterest. If there is spare time, she'll be listening to true crime podcasts or browsing healthy recipes that she hardly ever cooks. She loves traveling and experiencing different cultures and truly dislikes talking on the phone -text only, please! Ximena volunteers with the Birth Companion Program at UNMH. She believes in supporting women during the transformative time of childbirth. She is very passionate about birth and believes every woman deserves support regardless of her situation.


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