Paige Pacini
Paige is a stay-at-home mom to three hilarious, energetic boys. In her pre-kid life, Paige worked as a licensed mental health counselor, but she shelved her empathetic listening and insightful questions to change diapers, race cars on the kitchen floor, and mediate toddler wrestling matches. While Paige loves to be there for (almost) every moment with her children, she also loves to get away and connect with other moms for dinner or a walk in the beautiful Albuquerque sun. Paige is married to her high-school sweetheart, Ben, and they work together to raise their three sons with lots of laughter and lots of love.
My Children Requested 102 Things From Me Today (Literally!)
Today my children requested something from me 102 times. I was asked for 102 things. Okay, to be fair, some of those 102 requests were actually repeat requests for the same item. Example:
"Mom, can...
How to Paint Furniture Without Sanding
There's something very satisfying about taking an old piece of furniture and giving it a little facelift.
I've inherited a lot of great quality furniture from my grandparents, but in many cases, the wood color...
When Mother’s Day Is a Set-Up for Disappointment
Last year, I was chatting with a friend after Mother's Day. Our conversation went a bit like this:
How was your Mother's Day?
It was fine . . . Yeah, it was okay. We were working...
Fear Is Contagious, But So Are Peace, Kindness, & Gratitude
If you wake-up one morning and think, “I’d like to take my three small children to Smith’s in the middle of a global pandemic,” here’s a pro tip for you: Don’t do it. You...
Is There a “Right” Way to Parent?
Maybe your child screams for an hour because you won't let them eat another piece of candy. Perhaps your son is the only one dramatically clinging to your leg at preschool drop-off. Or your...
How to Style Naturally Curly Hair in Four Easy Steps
I've had a long, tumultuous history with my hair. We've been through many ups and downs, but I'm happy to report that I finally love my long, naturally curly hair.
In middle school, I hated...
Why I Will Never Make a Diet or Fitness New Year’s Resolution
Everyone is talking about their New Year's Resolutions. While my friends are planning to “lose 20 pounds” or “run a marathon,” I am announcing that “I have absolutely no diet or fitness goals!"
I bristle...
Unpopular Opinion :: Women Have Ample Encouragement to Take Care of Themselves
Unpopular opinions are just that . . . opinions. They are ideas that contradict the status quo. And this week, ABQ Moms Blog has a few unpopular opinions that we need to get off...
Mixed-Up Play Dough Colors and Other Things I’ve Decided to “Let Go”
Multicolor Play Dough and Ripped-Up Books
The first time my sons started grabbing different colors of play dough and smashing them together I had no idea what to do. Do I ask them to keep...
Breastpumping Tips for the Stressed-Out Moms, Preemie Moms, and Exclusive Pumpers
We’re continuing our celebration of World Breastfeeding Week 2019 The theme for this year is “Empower Parents, Enable Breastfeeding.” Thanks to Lovelace Health System for sponsoring this World Breastfeeding Week Editorial Series.
If you are breastpumping due to an...
Answering Tough Questions from Your Children
My 5-year-old is very inquisitive. He asks a million questions a day. I love his curious attitude towards the world, but it has led to some tough questions. Sometimes, he will ask me a...
Summer Ready :: Get a Natural Sunless Tan at Home
I have very fair skin. I embrace this about 99% of the time. But sometimes when I break out the shorts, tank-tops, and swimsuits, I really want to feel tan and summer-y. Also, it's...
Birth Stories :: I Don’t Have a Beautiful Birth Story
I don't have a beautiful birth story. I have three beautiful sons, but not once has the birth been what I hoped for. I'm okay with that. I'm okay with it most of the...
Why Kids Behave Worst for Their Moms
Out to Dinner
My husband and I joke that I should never go out to dinner with the family. When I go, the kids behave terribly.
My husband frequently takes our three sons (ages 6, 4,...